There is a monster being entertained in our homes!  Would you guess that it is pornography? Are you one of those people who think that porn is no big deal? Have you bought into the mindset that “everyone does it” and there isn’t any harm that comes from it?  Did […]

The Cost of Entertaining Pornography!

Anthony Weiner is running for the office of Mayor of New York. His sexually addictive behaviors have been getting in the way. He has been caught (again) sexting explicit pictures to other women. He was forced to resign his congressional seat last year for doing the same things. The biggest […]

Why Anthony Weiner Cannot ‘Just Stop’

Mayor Filner of San Diego has sexually harassed women who worked for him. He hasn’t resigned, but he has agreed to go to treatment. Many would question whether or not harassment is a big deal. I just have one thing to say about that: to the women who were continually […]

~ Mayor Filner of San Diego and Sexual Harassment

As the birds sing their spring songs and the little green buds appear on the trees, everyone seems to get that spring-cleaning bug. We come out of the winter drudgery when everything seems to have piled up in the corners and on the counters and lets not even talk about […]

Emotional Spring Cleaning

We were walking our little dog today. It was a beautiful spring day and we were enjoying the outdoors. We noticed that our puppy stopped to smell every pile of poop along the way. As counselors, we often help people to deal with the “poop” (the stuff that stinks–abuse, addictions, […]

The Stink of Addiction

The holidays are here again, and with them come stress, anxiety and depression. Our memories of Christmas’ past are sometimes less than happy. The economy has presented challenges of finances. There seems to be so much more stress around shopping and baking and trying to keep it all together for […]

Dealing with Stress, Anxiety, Depression and Pain

It is always mind-boggling how much technology is advancing and the accelerated speed at which it is happening. For years going to counseling meant that you would be experiencing talk-therapy. Now there are so many tools that counselors have to assist clients in dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and […]

Technology is Opening New Horizons

Kids and Perception Reframing Are your kids experiencing anxiety and stress as a result of any of these challenges?        Learning disabilities        Problems with focus        Perceptions that they can’t learn        Interpersonal/Peer relationships        Test anxieties/Performances issues   […]


Adoption Issues As adoptive parents of a foreign-born son, we understand the complex issues that come with dealing with the perceptions that come with identity. Our son is now a young man and has experienced many different issues surrounding his adoption: Living in a Caucasian family Fears of abandonment and […]


Pastors and Ministry Leaders are discovering that more couples struggling in their marriages/relationships than ever before. Statistics say 60% of people in any given church on any given Sunday are struggling with sexual addiction issues… Divorce is on the rise in the church! Statistics state that 33% of evangelical Christians have […]