I am a partner of a recovered sex addict. Ten years ago I discovered my husband had a sexual addiction when I got a phone call from jail. He had been arrested for soliciting a prostitute. After the initial shock, I had many decisions to make–none of which were easy. At the time I had been married for 19 years, and never had any clue that my husband was living a double life. My whole life changed in the time it took for the phone to ring. I answered the phone with one life, and after the call was over, I had a whole different life. I am going to share my journey with you here.